Louise Wise: self-help
Showing posts with label self-help. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-help. Show all posts

Sunday, 26 May 2013

Henry Sienkiewicz's talks to us about his writing technique.

From tiny idea to the book shops. What is your writing process?

First, I want to thank you for the chance to have a conversation with the readers of WWBB. This month’s topic, “from tiny idea to the book shops. What is your writing process?”, is a fascinating theme. I looked at the theme in two ways. The first way was as one who wanted to create a work, and then as one who wanted to find an audience for the work. 

For Untangled, I started with the classical premise that the unexamined life is not worth living. However, given the constant flow of the entanglements of modern life, is it even possible for us to examine life? Stimuli bombard each of our senses every second. The enablement and empowerment that comes with technology has the potential to make the world fundamentally better. We can’t cast aside the connectivity and the technology. However, social media and the like also have given us dozens of new ways to grab our attention.   We can barely go a minute without our phone buzzing at least once. We constantly check our Twitter feed. Active contemplation, the type of contemplation I focus on in Untangled, lets you find the distance to focus on the things that ultimately matter.

I still struggle to think of myself as a writer. I’m very much an observational, heterogeneous integrator. As an observer, I like to be highly aware of what is going on around me. As a heterogeneous writer, I pull inspiration from diverse sources. But, at the end, I try to integrate all of this into a comprehensive, and hopefully approachable, work.

Three years ago, when I began the process of writing Untangled, I wrote a lot of notes. I mulled through a bunch of ideas. I jotted things down. I eventually transcribed them onto one massive document, although I kept one idea per page. After a few months of writing and transcribing, I spread the individual ideas out on a large table and sorted them. 

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I searched hard to find the narrative arc, a backdrop, within the ideas. I searched even harder to make the arc approachable. I know that I’m following in the steps of some the most profound thinkers in human history. I realized that it was critical for both myself and my readers to have a narrative arc by which to follow the ideas.

I also made a conscious decision to let the ideas rest on their own. I didn’t want to put forward specific concrete steps. I didn’t want to mentally lock the reader into thinking that there was one path to take. Many writers offer definitive, universal steps that lead their readers to a pre-set destination. I wanted to avoid that fallacy.

As I start the actual writing and then subsequent editing process, I remember that one of my college instructors gave me some great advice. He told me that I needed to write it down, and put it down. He specifically told me to edit, and re-edit, and then re-edit again. He was right. Writing can be painful for me. It takes me time to find the narrative and construct the words to go with the ideas.

For an overall approach to finding an audience, I marvel at the changes within the book publishing industry over the last decade. My first book, Centerlined, was published in 2006. My approach to finding readers was significantly different than it is today. The disintermediation of the traditional publishing houses and the ability of an author to directly connect with the readers is ground-breaking, or maybe better said, wall-breaking. Venues like WWBB, on-line communities such as Goodreads, the acceptance of ebooks, all of this allow writers to join with readers in way that was not imaginable in 2006. Print on demand solutions, from independent presses to providers like Espresso, offer outlets that allow ideas to be widely sown. My YouTube video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_A3Trh5BlEw) has generated enormous interest. All of these channels allow writers the privilege of engaging with their readers.

I would like to thank WWBB again, for the privilege of connecting with readers here. If they readers wish to order the book directly from the website (www.untangledthebook.com) they can use the 20% off discount code.




Thursday, 14 June 2012

A BEGINNER'S GUIDE TO YOU ~ 7 steps to awaken to your heart, become a Heart Conscious Woman and love your life!

A shout out to all women who feel depressed, stuck, lonely, stressed, anxious, unfulfilled and
disillusioned in life. Make the choice to be free from all that holds you back from your happiness. You can thrive. You just have to want to.

UK Author, Marie Alesbury is delighted to announce the release of her new book -  “A BEGINNER’S GUIDE TO YOU ~ 7 steps to awaken to your heart, become a Heart Conscious Woman and love your life!”
Available at Amazon worldwide now:


A Beginner's Guide to You details the life-transforming 7 step process that gently guides and supports women in freeing themselves from feeling depressed, stuck, unfulfilled, disillusioned and unworthy of love so that they may finally realize their true essence and the shining and sparkly potential of their future.

Alarmingly, in the UK alone, 30% of women are treated for a mental health problem (Better or Worse: A longitudinal study of the mental health of adults in Great Britain, National Statistics, 2003). Depression is much more common in women than in men with 1 in 4 women requiring treatment for depression and anxiety compared to 1 in 10 men. Sadly, the statistics speak for themselves.

The information, skills, strategies and exercises detailed in the book are a result of more than 10 years of research, expertise and personal experience. Marie explains that her inspiring book "shares all the knowledge and skills that are just too valuable to keep to myself. Women will gain a true and fresh perspective on who they truly are and who they really are not! This book offers them their stepping stone back to their heart and guides them along a path of well-deserved self-nurturing to restore peace in their heart and love in their life".

For some of her twenties, Marie Alesbury's life was ruled by feelings of depression, unworthiness, low self-esteem, anxiety, and panic attacks. However, hitting rock bottom at 31 was the most important pivotal moment of her life. She had a choice to sink or swim and she chose to live her life instead of being a victim of it. She now lives a beautiful and blessed life in the middle of the Ellisfield countryside with her husband, Rob, daughter, Evie and their doggy, Noodle.

Marie Alesbury left her job as a Senior Therapeutic Radiographer in the NHS once Evie came along to concentrate on her family. Her heartfelt intention and mission is to help other women who find themselves in the same predicament she was in her twenties. She trained to be a Reiki practitioner in 2005 and found that the majority of her clients all seemed to be dealing with similar issues. She now wishes to reach out to a wider audience and touch the hearts of as many people as possible. 

Marie prides herself on her ability to have transformed a life full of heart ache and adversity into a magical and joyful one. Now all she wants is for others to know what she knows so that they can love their life too.

You can visit Marie Alesbury on her website, Twitter and Facebook


Sunday, 16 January 2011

The Cross and the Psychiatrist -self-help book keeping it real!

By
Terry L Dorn



A story about a life that fell apart and is mended by faith. When a person
experiences a mental breakdown he is treated like he’s not even two years old. Terry Dorn has experienced torture as a child, lived on
the streets in Minneapolis Minnesota at age ten. He Slept in box cars and vacant houses at first. Was hospitalized several times for observation as a teenager. He had to fight to not receive shock treatments at age fifteen.

Terry is a bounce back person and has become a hero to many who have experienced a major psychiatric challenge.







Terry L Dorn's The Cross and the Psychiatrist-Stopping a Modern-day Epidemic is a must read for everyone, particularly those who are close to individuals who have psychiatric disabilities. Throughout the text, the author emphasizes that these individuals should not be bound by a stigma and label. On the contrary, Dorn offers what all psychiatric patients and their family members seek: hope. Often times, being able to see the light at the end of the tunnel is enough to keep the individual pushing for a return to normalcy. Dorn vigorously supports this concept, and he firmly believes that the church, and faith in general, can help patients return to leading normal lives.

What sets this book apart from other psychiatric awareness texts is that the information does not make up a thousand-page textbook. Instead, this book essentially draws from the real-life experiences of Terry Dorn. One passage that is particularly indicative of Dorn's stance states, "Mental illness has become the leprosy of this age. Stigma and ignorance has built a wall that keeps many of these wounded people away from being socially acceptable ever again."

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The author of this book, Terry Dorn, left home at the age of ten due to torture and abuse. Many teachers told Terry he could not be a writer because of his education. He has published a book for Washington State Mental Health system and has been the editor of a newspaper: -"You must learn to turn your problems into lessons".

The real power in this life is (FAITH) and believing in ones dreams! Terry's ability to see the good in people has helped many individuals to return to a productive life.





Click below for the interview: